04-19-2006, 10:24 PM
First, Congratulations on your marriage. I mean that. Its a beautiful event and you will eventually get over this.
Now, how is it that the woman that you married did not understand your investment in the hobby? This kinda stuff does happen, but it should not. I had a boat once and my wife hated it, said nothing, got to a point where she almost kicked me out, and then we had to make some changes that are too numerous for this forum. But my point is that spouses dont usually make mistakes like that, so I wonder if she had some competative issues with your hobby, or your being away, or something that takes you away from her? Not knowing anything about anything here and not wishing to offend, I would like to offer a humble opionion to do some major talking. Talking saved my marriage and enlightened both of us. BTW the boat is gone too.
On a side note. I would love to hear that your wife's family is very understanding and returns your property. Good luck!
Now, how is it that the woman that you married did not understand your investment in the hobby? This kinda stuff does happen, but it should not. I had a boat once and my wife hated it, said nothing, got to a point where she almost kicked me out, and then we had to make some changes that are too numerous for this forum. But my point is that spouses dont usually make mistakes like that, so I wonder if she had some competative issues with your hobby, or your being away, or something that takes you away from her? Not knowing anything about anything here and not wishing to offend, I would like to offer a humble opionion to do some major talking. Talking saved my marriage and enlightened both of us. BTW the boat is gone too.
On a side note. I would love to hear that your wife's family is very understanding and returns your property. Good luck!
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